Between forgetting and accepting

God helps with the way that we never thought about before and today I got helped by my last session of my English course.

We had a discussion about maturity and the session turned into 'curhat' session. I learned much about how to growing up, not just getting older. My teacher is wise. She has beautiful words to explain that maturity is the key.

She said problems made us more mature. Any kind of problems. She said sometimes we just have to get hurt to learn about something. And when we're facing unpleasantness, as a mature people, we have to deal it without becoming bitter. She said, "Maybe if you get hurt, you'd try to forget someone who hurt you. Or trying to forget all those things on your pasts. But we can never forget that. Never. Because the memory will last forever. It is the part of your brain. Maybe you can forget it for a while but then it suddenly pops out your mind, or something unplanned reminds you of that. All we can do is accept the things that already happened."

We can not forget.
We have to accept.

That is so good. I've got brighter way to live and to see. I will try to accept. Really.
Well I just want to share this to you. Maybe you have a problem with your past, I hope this post can help you.

Gabriella,
xoxo